This week, we are talking about the clitoris. Why? There is
still little known about the clitoris, despite research dating back to the
seventeenth century, which shows its central significance to female orgasm. I
find that tragic and unacceptable, and I am not alone. Sophia Wallace, an
artist out of New York City, has taken it upon herself to spread the cliteracy
message. In an interview with the Huffington Post, Ms. Wallace states that, “Even
as the female body is the primary metaphor for sexuality…the clitoris is
virtually invisible.” There is no conversation around the clitoris and no
connection made between the clitoris and sexual pleasure. This is hugely
problematic, because most women are orgasmic through clitoral stimulation. Many
women are left to feel broken, because they cannot climax through vaginal sex
alone, a myth perpetuated by society, film, and pornography. According to Ms.
Wallace, “It’s insane to me that this is still happening in 2013.” Her use of
multi-media images and interactive sculptures were created to drop some
scientific clitoral facts into our everyday sex conversations. I especially
like her piece on 100 rules of cliteracy and the giant golden clit rodeo. You can
find out more about her brilliant work here.
To support her work and expand the conversation, I thought
that I would drop some fun clitoral facts too:
- The clitoris has over 8000 nerve fibers, more than anywhere else on the body and twice as many as the penis. AND it is the only organ wholly dedicated to pleasure. (From Woman: An Intimate Geography by Natalie Angier)
- The glans of the clitoris (or button as some refer to it) is only 1/10th of the entire clitoris. Connected by the shaft, the rest of the clitoris, which looks like a wishbone, lies beneath the skin of the vulva and is called the crura. This part of the clitoris will swell to almost twice its size during arousal. (From Bonk by Mary Roach)
- The clitoris is usually compared to the head of the penis, which is not entirely accurate. It has more nerve endings and contains no urethra. However, if it is not cleaned properly, it can create a hard, cheese-like substance called smegma, much like the head of an uncircumcised penis. (From Woman: An Intimate Geography by Natalie Angier)
- Like the inner and outer labia, each clitoris is different. They vary in exact size, shape, protrusion, and distance from the vaginal opening. (From Bonk by Mary Roach)
- Clitoral stimulation is not the only way a woman can achieve an orgasm. There are women who can think themselves into orgasm, who can climax by having their nipples tweaked, who can orgasm through neck massages. It just happens to be a damn good way for a lot of women to climax. (From Bonk by Mary Roach)
I hope that this sparks some conversation with friends and
partners. I also hope it inspires some exploration. We could use some more cliteracy in this world!
- Lauren, supporter or all things cliterate!
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